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How to Create A Relaxing Bedroom with Leesa / via Oh Joy!
How to Create A Relaxing Bedroom with Leesa / via Oh Joy!
I love my bedroom SO much. Not only do I see it as a place to sleep and rest for the night, but it's my wind-down space after a long day of work and being "on" for everyone. I can finally turn my brain "off" for a bit. But, to be honest, it can be really hard to truly turn off. I am guilty of having the TV on, while checking Instagram on my phone, while being on my computer checking work emails. So in partnership with Leesa, I challenged myself, and now you, to create the ultimate relaxation space with tips that will make your bedroom way more relaxing. Try one or all of these tips, and you'll be thanking me for a more rested YOU! Here are my 8 tips…

How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
1. A soothing paint color. If you're moving into a new place OR you just need a bedroom makeover, a new paint color can be key in setting the tone for relaxation. We chose this soft greyish green. It has color, but not too much. It feels calm yet more unique than plain white. You can paint your whole bedroom in a soothing color (like we did here) or focus on one accent wall.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
2. Notes to self. Since I'm a visual person, things for me are often "out of sight, out of mind". So when it's important for me to put something into practice, little notes or reminders are my friend. Here's an opportunity to get yourself into better habits with a note board you can keep somewhere. Whether it's to put your phone away after 8pm or be in bed by 10pm, help yourself out with a visual cue.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
3. Brain dump. When I have a hard time falling asleep, it's because I have so many ideas floating around in my head or things on my to-do list for the next day. Let your brain dump all that information to be saved for tomorrow by keeping a small notepad by your bed. That way, if any thoughts come to mind just at you're about to start counting sheep, you can write it down and be on your way to slumbertown.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
4. A great mattress. We recently tried the Leesa mattress out at a local West Elm, and it felt like laying on a supportive cloud. I would literally lay on this mattress all day. If you haven't changed your mattress in a while OR you find the one keeps you tossing and turning from lack of comfort, take a serious look at your mattress. This mattress has three different layers of foam to accommodate every type of sleeper! (And nothing is more relaxing than having it delivered in a box right to your door!)
If you've never bought a mattress online, I love that Leesa even lets you test out a mattress in your own home for 100 nights with free shipping. They are socially conscious and donate one mattress to a non-profit for every ten they sell through their One-Ten program (30,000 mattresses donated so far!). They also plants one tree for every mattress sold. And, they're perfect for dancing on, too!
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
5. A cozy reading area. Sometimes I find that when I read in bed, I completely fall asleep mid-way through a book. Or, I have a hard time sitting up in a great reading position. If you have the space for it, create a small reading area with a cozy chair and blanket so you can feel relaxed for reading without being totally in bed.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
6. Unplug bin. To help cut-down on screentime, you can give yourself a bin by your bedroom door to plug in your phone and devices but keep them away from your bed. To stick to good habits, we need to set ourselves up to make those habits easy to stick to! If you find yourself grabbing for your phone because you think you need it as an alarm, use a regular alarm clock instead.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
7. Plant nook. Being surrounded by plants (and taking care of them), can be really relaxing. Create a small area with a few small or medium sized plants that grow well indoors and that you'll see everyday.
How to create a relaxing bedroom... / via Oh Joy!
8. Cozy linens. Nothing gets me more excited for bed then being wrapped in soft sheets and blankets. To add to a great bed and relaxing surroundings, the icing on the cake involve your favorite sheets and blankets.
What do you think? Which of these tips will you try out?!

*This post is brought to you in collaboration with Leesa.

Sources shown: Leesa mattress, Benjamin Moore Palladian Blue paint, Max Wanger ice cream print, AiModern credenza, Felt Like Sharing letter board, Target gold ceramic box (past season), H&M gold wire basket (past season), Oh Joy! phone case, vintage brass deer, round containers, Lamps Plus table lamp, Nomah Project back pack, Loeffler Randall ruffle slides (past season), & Other Stories green heels, Zuzii clogs, Eric Trine plant stands, Grandin Road peacock chair, Pom Pom at Home throw blanket, Arro Home rainbow pillow (past season), Moroccan pouf (similar), Target round rug, Lamps Plus floor lamp, S'well water bottle,  Maria Vazquez flower print, Max Wanger beach print, Simply Grove weaving, CB2 bed frame, West Elm blue bud vase, The Container Store white box, PB Teen alarm clock, Pilgrim diffuser, West Elm linen duvet & shams, Feliz dashed cover & shams, West Elm textured blanket, Oh Joy x Lorena Canals rugs, Amazon slippers, Anthropologie shag pillows, Target end table, Amazon bluetooth speaker, Anthropologie trinket dish (past season), Oh Joy x Erin Condren note pad, Ikea mirror.

{Photos by Lily Glass, styling by Wilmarose Orlanes, styling assistance by Jess Hong.}


  1. Each of our girls got a Leesa when they were moved up to twin big-kid beds from their cribs/toddler beds… and my husband and I both compete for excuses to nap in their beds! As soon as we can justify a new mattress for ourselves, it’s absolutely going to be a Leesa. Hands down the most comfortable and COOL mattress I’ve ever slept on!

  2. These tips are super helpful! This is definitely helpful for college students who needs a relaxing environment to sleep and study after a long day of school. Thanks for sharing!

  3. I really liked the decor and color combinations in the interior in your photos, even small items add coziness and home atmosphere. After a working day, this environment is very relaxing, and on weekends I like to visit this spa and do my favorite treatments.


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